So, beat the hell out of trolls on my Substack. They deserve it for giving us a hard time elsewhere. Here, Ray's got your back. If I see them doing this on your Substack, Notes, or comments, I'll kick butt!
You'll have to pay to bother this one anymore. Go make some of my others go viral. Either way, it's good for business and you trolls are pathetic and just plain sad. SMFH
You people really do need to get a life. Substack will find your original accounts and delete you. 🙄 Thanks for making my article go viral, you dumb fuck. How pathetic are you? AND very confused.
Fine article, Ray. I admire your restraint a great deal: an honorable work!
'many don’t even know a trans person'
This is the thing. 'My' country, Australia is far from perfect, and so are the people. As you'd know we have our share of bigotry and when it comes to stupidity we are a world leader, like the U.S. Notwithstanding these things, I get along fine with nearly all of my fellow citizens because they have this saving grace: they tend to take people as they find them.
Troubling to find them is the thing. Most of these things - the negative social things - dissipate like morning mist as soon as strangers start getting to know each other face to face. Electronic media is no substitute for actual contact. Far from it.
I used tell my kids this: 'you gotta get a sniff'. They used to just look at me. They know what I mean now, but they still 'just look at me' quite often.
Of course there is plenty of fear and ignorance around, and arseholism, of course, that's a tough nut to crack. One of the things I admire about your work Ray, is that even in your highest dudgeon, while you beard all these 'lions' in their electronic 'dens', but, you don't blot your copybook as I do by using the word arseholism....
The parallel with jim crow and that story about pissing on the side of the car - ever when your Dad is a national icon - was a hell of a poignant story, and right on point. Your mother was one courageous woman!
Your candour is a great quality. Is your pocket full* yet?
Social media is destroying people's desire for face-to-face interactions. I can't tell you how many trans people say they have social anxiety, so they don't want to do the in-person thing. I tell all my people the same thing, including my surrogate children. One of my sons was texting his woman sitting in the same room. You should've heard me go off on him. In short, I said, "Boy, if you don't put that damn phone down and talk with her, I'm going to kick your butt when you get anywhere near me!" As nervous as he was, he did it. I'm so proud of his coachability.
Transmen blend into society easily. I go plenty of places where I don't disclose and I'm not walking around with "Trans" stamped on my forehead. LOL I do get to hear some really crazy arguments going on about us. I also have a young man who comes to do pesticide treatments around my house & inside. Got in a conversation with him about trans people. I told him to live & let live; he'll live longer. He looked at me wide-eyed without knowing I'm trans.
You're funny with your tactfulness about cussing, my friend. I simply say asshole. LOL
My mother was a hell of a courageous woman. She was so pretty that truck drivers accommodated her whenever she needed them. They may have never told anybody they helped a Black woman with her kids in a Cadillac, but they did so anyway. Those rednecks were really nice.
People only kissed our butts at the ballpark and if they recognized us in my hometown. Anywhere else, they had no idea who they were dealing with, and again, segregation was still going at that time. My father, Bill White, and Curt Flood integrated MLB. It fell like a deck of cards after they got the Cardinals to do it. After that, we no longer drove that distance, but flew.
Yes, stuff is falling out of my pocket, dude. Stop it. They're falling out on my tender feet. Gunga Din of piss. Good one! Aaaahahahahaha.
Who is Raymona? This is my article and my name is simply Ray. If you're here to start trouble, I will merely delete your comment and block you. I am a veteran whose PCP loves the heck out of me. I don't need your help in that area. What is your agenda here?
Never mind, I have banned you indefinitely. I would suggest you mind your own business. You don't want to get on my bad side, Dylan. Don't come in my pieces talking indirectly to me through my friends. You got that, punk? My body is off limits to you and anybody else I choose. I am pro-choice, and you're not a doctor. Even if you are, you're not MY doctor, so shut the fuck up, dude.
Dang, Ray! I was too late. You defenestrated whatever that was. I like defenestrating too, Buddy. There was a poor bastard on Medium one time who told me I was, among other things, a 'libtard'. Secretly pleased, because in my heart of hearts I'd always wanted to be called a libtard by a redneck-deplorable, I nonetheless resorted to my superpower: close examination of text. It did not take long to figure this person out because he (I presume) was a bit wordy. No need for rudeness on my part. I elected to transparently feign compassion. I forgave him because I knew the people he called his friends all disliked him, and he was afraid of most of them. He was still a virgin because such women as he had contact with (not many because not only did he lack self-confidence, but there was about his lonely yearnings a certain uncertainty on account of latent homosexuality) realized at once what I just wrote. I told him I felt for him and hoped one day he would find the courage to come out. I put some real care into writing that and you know what? Yep you do: never heard a peep from him. Come on, Ray, let me at the next one before you give 'em the flick.
Aaaaaaahahahahaha. Okay. Well, I don't care how I'm being with these fools. They're like maggots in a couple of my articles. Yes, I'm quick with the bans. I forgot most of what that bitch said.
Preach on, Ray! And fuck those people who think we're cosplaying a different gender! I mean, there *are* men who dress up as women, but they're drag queens, not trans women, and the transmisiacs refuse to learn the difference, so fuck them!
That's right, Leah. Actually, they're cross-dressers. Drag queens are performers. If they didn't get all butt hurt, we could educate them. They'll accuse us of trolling if we get anywhere near their disbelief about us. Thank you for reading Ms.
And if you're a transphobe, you're a cunt. I find it odd that this Substack is your only subscription and you have no other posts. Almost like this is targeted harassment. Why are you on this page if you hate trans people so much? I'm going to need you to fuck off.
Tell it. Every word of this makes sense to me, my entire family, all my friends, people of all ages—from my 90 year old mother-in-law, to my 80 year old mother, my 78 year old father, all the children in my family, and pretty much everyone I know. The reason? It is OBVIOUS. It makes sense to the Mormons we know, and Lutherans and the Catholics even if it doesn’t make sense to the people who run those churches. It is simple, it is logical, it is evident and apparent. (Also, none of these people spend time on social media, and do not read the transphobic news sources). If my maternal grandmother were alive she’d be 105 but it would make sense to her too. Transphobic people are irrational dipshits and bullies. Fuck ‘em.
YES. It is not an issue for them. Why should they want somebody else to be who they are not? Why would anyone want this? Luckily, they do not go online, and they avoid the hysterical portion of the news, and never listen to rightwing nonsense. So none of the current blather has created any subsequent confusion for them. But they didn't have issues grasping the concept in the first place, and it's very unlikely they would be influenced by all that transphobic squawking now.
Everyone can understand. For some stupid reason, they don't want to.
I'm older too, and so are my family members. I've gotten most of them onboard without social media or the internet. Just takes them truly loving, talking with & knowing a few of us that aren't depending on them. That way, they can't throw them out & destroy their life if they don't like what is said. Plus I've got mad communication skills.
But, it's me trying to educate a ton of people, and if they're assholes about it, OUT THEY GO! Ain't nobody got time for their nonsense, least of all me. I'm on a mission and incorrigible ones are a distraction.
Seeing as how transgender people have existed pretty much forever, I think it's safe to say that trans women have been using women's restrooms since way before an issue was ever made of it. That being the case, and none of us created a single problem in those restrooms at a time when we were under the radar and nobody was watching out for us, why would we ever decide to start causing problems in those restrooms now at a time when we're constantly in the spotlight and constantly being scrutinized and villainized by so many bigots and politicians who are watching us so closely and just hoping that we step out of line in even the smallest way? How stupid for people to believe that we would!
It's never been about you ladies. It's about predatory cismales in all kinds of spaces women are in. Like someone else said in here, there's not 1 single case of transwomen doing anything nefarious in the women's room. Neither do transmen in the men's room. It was hysteria blown up in a projecting manner that cis people bought into because they know nothing about us or how we operate. The same stupid thing happened to Black people during slavery & Jim Crow. It's all bullshit anyway, and the ones spreading the crap know they're lying and can control weak-minded/evil individuals into believing it.
They're lining up in their Sunday's best to see who will be lynched by this bullshit ... just like they did lynching us during slavery & Jim Crow. Those same kinds of people bought into the lies, hook, line and sinker. Hate begets hate, and they don't even realize what they're hating on. Human beings, just like them. Anything to make it seem like they're on top, in power, and in control. If they have to villainize certain people to make themselves feel better, they will. It's sick, I know. But that's what is going on.
As a 50 year old trans woman who fought being trans until her early 40s I can relate to most of this. Not all of it because I'm white. My heart breaks for my trans siblings of color. I transitioned during the first Trump presidency and it was pretty uneventful. Then we became the scapegoat for everything that's allegedly wrong with this country. None of us asked for that. I just want to live, as I'm sure you do. I think a lot of the problem is that there are so few of us that most Americans don't know a trans person. And unfortunately they believe all the BS being shoveled by the right.
Right, Jennifer. I started the year before all this nonsense started in 2016. I can't believe all the opinions being slung around by not only the right, but left and middle. They describe things that have nothing to do with how we came to be, and think they're saying something because they googled it. Hahahahaha
Not sure what you think you're doing, little girl. You people cannot deter us just because you have issues. Might I suggest a shrink or a therapist? You've been banned & reported. Do you really think to harass people into some kind of submission? What a fool.
Cool story Debra. And I'm not predating on little girls, or boys for that matter. That's a fiction you people invented and refuse to let go of. We compromise less than 1% of the population but the right has made it sound like we're everywhere doing all the things you think we're doing. Did you ever stop to think what they're trying to distract you from? I'm in the bathroom for the same reason as all the other women. I need to pee. So get off your high horse and go find a cause to fight for that's not rooted in hate and misinformation.
I got rid of her, Jennifer. Trust me, these people are insane, hateful, misinformed, and morons. SMFH I suggest you block her, because they're starting to run all over the place looking for us. I will kick her proverbial ass next time I see her.
And you're an idiot. What do you people think you're doing? Is that suppose to invalidate me because that's what you think? Stupid. Thanks for helping to make this article go viral sandra @sandramyes230492340, and have a good life.
You are an essential truth teller about basic human rights, KingRay. Your voice lets people know the reality of lives worth living - whether trans, non-binary, or anyone not considered "mainstream". ALL humans are mainstream. Thank you.
Yes, you're full of bullshit. Being trans isn't a dress contest and I'm not at risk in the men's room. You're worried about predatory cisgender males, not transwomen. You know ... dudes like YOU!
Say something else stupid and I'll merely block you if you want to troll my Substack blogs. You have no clue what you're talking about. SMFH
Transvestites is an old term that is now offensive. So, back the fuck off and then get lost.
You are banned from here indefinitely. I unblocked you so you could see the comments made back at you. I told trolls they could get beat up in here and rightly so. I'm not the one to troll ... anywhere on Substack. You people are irrational and stupid.
There are exactly ZERO police reports about trans people harassing cis people in the restroom. However there is a shit ton of reports (including deaths) from cis people harassing trans people in restrooms.
So tell me again how “dangerous” trans people are?
That's damn right, WillH. They just run around making shit up. Not all of them, but cisgender males are predatory in public bathrooms. Not anybody else. Dickheads! LOL
Trans femme here. Wait, just let me take these earrings off first. Okay.
“The number one reason…”. WTF?!?! You better have a source for that statement. Anywho, seems to me you’re confusing kink and identity. Which tells me a bit more about you. Not to mention, that’s a bit dehumanizing, reducing me to a fetish and a perv.
I do not own a single item of men’s clothing. My wardrobe is full of daily wear, office wear, workout wear, night items, underclothes, dresses, skirts, sweaters, all women’s clothes. Not to mention, I probably have like a $1,000 plus in makeup, creams, oils, perfumes, hair care products, etc. I also have jewelry, belts, purses, and my real true love, shoes and boots. But Not.A.Single.Male.Item. It’s been that way for years.
That’s an expensive endeavor just to get hard and harass women in public toilets, don’t you think? Because it’s not my “fetish” it’s my identity. My personhood.
And why the bathroom? Have you been in a public restroom lately? 🤢
Nah, I do fine on Bumble. And I get flirted with and hit on almost everywhere I go. And when I’m feeling spicy, there’s Tinder. So, I’m good.
All I do in a bathroom is refresh my makeup and pee. Just like everyone else.
So, beat the hell out of trolls on my Substack. They deserve it for giving us a hard time elsewhere. Here, Ray's got your back. If I see them doing this on your Substack, Notes, or comments, I'll kick butt!
You'll have to pay to bother this one anymore. Go make some of my others go viral. Either way, it's good for business and you trolls are pathetic and just plain sad. SMFH
You people really do need to get a life. Substack will find your original accounts and delete you. 🙄 Thanks for making my article go viral, you dumb fuck. How pathetic are you? AND very confused.
I did have to switch this post to paid subscribers only for comments. Some anti-trans bot(s) kept attacking this one. Sorry, folks.
Fine article, Ray. I admire your restraint a great deal: an honorable work!
'many don’t even know a trans person'
This is the thing. 'My' country, Australia is far from perfect, and so are the people. As you'd know we have our share of bigotry and when it comes to stupidity we are a world leader, like the U.S. Notwithstanding these things, I get along fine with nearly all of my fellow citizens because they have this saving grace: they tend to take people as they find them.
Troubling to find them is the thing. Most of these things - the negative social things - dissipate like morning mist as soon as strangers start getting to know each other face to face. Electronic media is no substitute for actual contact. Far from it.
I used tell my kids this: 'you gotta get a sniff'. They used to just look at me. They know what I mean now, but they still 'just look at me' quite often.
Of course there is plenty of fear and ignorance around, and arseholism, of course, that's a tough nut to crack. One of the things I admire about your work Ray, is that even in your highest dudgeon, while you beard all these 'lions' in their electronic 'dens', but, you don't blot your copybook as I do by using the word arseholism....
The parallel with jim crow and that story about pissing on the side of the car - ever when your Dad is a national icon - was a hell of a poignant story, and right on point. Your mother was one courageous woman!
Your candour is a great quality. Is your pocket full* yet?
You are a better man than I, Gunga Din!
* Of piss!
Thanks, man. I always appreciate a word from you.
Social media is destroying people's desire for face-to-face interactions. I can't tell you how many trans people say they have social anxiety, so they don't want to do the in-person thing. I tell all my people the same thing, including my surrogate children. One of my sons was texting his woman sitting in the same room. You should've heard me go off on him. In short, I said, "Boy, if you don't put that damn phone down and talk with her, I'm going to kick your butt when you get anywhere near me!" As nervous as he was, he did it. I'm so proud of his coachability.
Transmen blend into society easily. I go plenty of places where I don't disclose and I'm not walking around with "Trans" stamped on my forehead. LOL I do get to hear some really crazy arguments going on about us. I also have a young man who comes to do pesticide treatments around my house & inside. Got in a conversation with him about trans people. I told him to live & let live; he'll live longer. He looked at me wide-eyed without knowing I'm trans.
You're funny with your tactfulness about cussing, my friend. I simply say asshole. LOL
My mother was a hell of a courageous woman. She was so pretty that truck drivers accommodated her whenever she needed them. They may have never told anybody they helped a Black woman with her kids in a Cadillac, but they did so anyway. Those rednecks were really nice.
People only kissed our butts at the ballpark and if they recognized us in my hometown. Anywhere else, they had no idea who they were dealing with, and again, segregation was still going at that time. My father, Bill White, and Curt Flood integrated MLB. It fell like a deck of cards after they got the Cardinals to do it. After that, we no longer drove that distance, but flew.
Yes, stuff is falling out of my pocket, dude. Stop it. They're falling out on my tender feet. Gunga Din of piss. Good one! Aaaahahahahaha.
Who is Raymona? This is my article and my name is simply Ray. If you're here to start trouble, I will merely delete your comment and block you. I am a veteran whose PCP loves the heck out of me. I don't need your help in that area. What is your agenda here?
Never mind, I have banned you indefinitely. I would suggest you mind your own business. You don't want to get on my bad side, Dylan. Don't come in my pieces talking indirectly to me through my friends. You got that, punk? My body is off limits to you and anybody else I choose. I am pro-choice, and you're not a doctor. Even if you are, you're not MY doctor, so shut the fuck up, dude.
Dang, Ray! I was too late. You defenestrated whatever that was. I like defenestrating too, Buddy. There was a poor bastard on Medium one time who told me I was, among other things, a 'libtard'. Secretly pleased, because in my heart of hearts I'd always wanted to be called a libtard by a redneck-deplorable, I nonetheless resorted to my superpower: close examination of text. It did not take long to figure this person out because he (I presume) was a bit wordy. No need for rudeness on my part. I elected to transparently feign compassion. I forgave him because I knew the people he called his friends all disliked him, and he was afraid of most of them. He was still a virgin because such women as he had contact with (not many because not only did he lack self-confidence, but there was about his lonely yearnings a certain uncertainty on account of latent homosexuality) realized at once what I just wrote. I told him I felt for him and hoped one day he would find the courage to come out. I put some real care into writing that and you know what? Yep you do: never heard a peep from him. Come on, Ray, let me at the next one before you give 'em the flick.
Aaaaaaahahahahaha. Okay. Well, I don't care how I'm being with these fools. They're like maggots in a couple of my articles. Yes, I'm quick with the bans. I forgot most of what that bitch said.
Preach on, Ray! And fuck those people who think we're cosplaying a different gender! I mean, there *are* men who dress up as women, but they're drag queens, not trans women, and the transmisiacs refuse to learn the difference, so fuck them!
That's right, Leah. Actually, they're cross-dressers. Drag queens are performers. If they didn't get all butt hurt, we could educate them. They'll accuse us of trolling if we get anywhere near their disbelief about us. Thank you for reading Ms.
You’re right about cross-dressers. My bad! This is especially embarrassing for me as I know one personally.
LOL ... don't worry about it.
Thank you Ray for your boldness and honesty. We trans women appreciate your having our back!
You're very welcome, Ms. Wish others knew that before they attack me in other places around here.
And if you're a transphobe, you're a cunt. I find it odd that this Substack is your only subscription and you have no other posts. Almost like this is targeted harassment. Why are you on this page if you hate trans people so much? I'm going to need you to fuck off.
This particular article went viral, so they're finding it easier than the others. SMFH
I guess it tripped the algorithm and pushed it to the head of the line. LOL
Yeah, they're running around making those kinds of accounts. The only way Substack can find them is to track their IP address. SMFH
You have no idea who the fuck I am and have never met me but you're sure I'm creeping on little girls. Methinks thou art projecting.
And you're a clueless bitch. Now get off my Stack, loser 💜Vivianne💜
@smallzbb868867566343254353.
Okay, you ignorant broad. You're out of here!
Tell it. Every word of this makes sense to me, my entire family, all my friends, people of all ages—from my 90 year old mother-in-law, to my 80 year old mother, my 78 year old father, all the children in my family, and pretty much everyone I know. The reason? It is OBVIOUS. It makes sense to the Mormons we know, and Lutherans and the Catholics even if it doesn’t make sense to the people who run those churches. It is simple, it is logical, it is evident and apparent. (Also, none of these people spend time on social media, and do not read the transphobic news sources). If my maternal grandmother were alive she’d be 105 but it would make sense to her too. Transphobic people are irrational dipshits and bullies. Fuck ‘em.
I think I might've missed something. Are you saying all those people in your family understand who we are??? If so, that's amazing!!!
YES. It is not an issue for them. Why should they want somebody else to be who they are not? Why would anyone want this? Luckily, they do not go online, and they avoid the hysterical portion of the news, and never listen to rightwing nonsense. So none of the current blather has created any subsequent confusion for them. But they didn't have issues grasping the concept in the first place, and it's very unlikely they would be influenced by all that transphobic squawking now.
Everyone can understand. For some stupid reason, they don't want to.
I'm older too, and so are my family members. I've gotten most of them onboard without social media or the internet. Just takes them truly loving, talking with & knowing a few of us that aren't depending on them. That way, they can't throw them out & destroy their life if they don't like what is said. Plus I've got mad communication skills.
But, it's me trying to educate a ton of people, and if they're assholes about it, OUT THEY GO! Ain't nobody got time for their nonsense, least of all me. I'm on a mission and incorrigible ones are a distraction.
Thanks for reading, Ro!
Seeing as how transgender people have existed pretty much forever, I think it's safe to say that trans women have been using women's restrooms since way before an issue was ever made of it. That being the case, and none of us created a single problem in those restrooms at a time when we were under the radar and nobody was watching out for us, why would we ever decide to start causing problems in those restrooms now at a time when we're constantly in the spotlight and constantly being scrutinized and villainized by so many bigots and politicians who are watching us so closely and just hoping that we step out of line in even the smallest way? How stupid for people to believe that we would!
It's never been about you ladies. It's about predatory cismales in all kinds of spaces women are in. Like someone else said in here, there's not 1 single case of transwomen doing anything nefarious in the women's room. Neither do transmen in the men's room. It was hysteria blown up in a projecting manner that cis people bought into because they know nothing about us or how we operate. The same stupid thing happened to Black people during slavery & Jim Crow. It's all bullshit anyway, and the ones spreading the crap know they're lying and can control weak-minded/evil individuals into believing it.
They're lining up in their Sunday's best to see who will be lynched by this bullshit ... just like they did lynching us during slavery & Jim Crow. Those same kinds of people bought into the lies, hook, line and sinker. Hate begets hate, and they don't even realize what they're hating on. Human beings, just like them. Anything to make it seem like they're on top, in power, and in control. If they have to villainize certain people to make themselves feel better, they will. It's sick, I know. But that's what is going on.
As a 50 year old trans woman who fought being trans until her early 40s I can relate to most of this. Not all of it because I'm white. My heart breaks for my trans siblings of color. I transitioned during the first Trump presidency and it was pretty uneventful. Then we became the scapegoat for everything that's allegedly wrong with this country. None of us asked for that. I just want to live, as I'm sure you do. I think a lot of the problem is that there are so few of us that most Americans don't know a trans person. And unfortunately they believe all the BS being shoveled by the right.
Right, Jennifer. I started the year before all this nonsense started in 2016. I can't believe all the opinions being slung around by not only the right, but left and middle. They describe things that have nothing to do with how we came to be, and think they're saying something because they googled it. Hahahahaha
You don't know me. So piss off. You definitely have the right name for this kind of behavior.
Killed that one quickly. Since I could use some more views of my other blogs, they can go both those ones. LOL
Making them pay to continue harassing this one. Was her name Karen? Aaaaahahahaha. TOUCHE!
Not sure what you think you're doing, little girl. You people cannot deter us just because you have issues. Might I suggest a shrink or a therapist? You've been banned & reported. Do you really think to harass people into some kind of submission? What a fool.
Cool story Debra. And I'm not predating on little girls, or boys for that matter. That's a fiction you people invented and refuse to let go of. We compromise less than 1% of the population but the right has made it sound like we're everywhere doing all the things you think we're doing. Did you ever stop to think what they're trying to distract you from? I'm in the bathroom for the same reason as all the other women. I need to pee. So get off your high horse and go find a cause to fight for that's not rooted in hate and misinformation.
I got rid of her, Jennifer. Trust me, these people are insane, hateful, misinformed, and morons. SMFH I suggest you block her, because they're starting to run all over the place looking for us. I will kick her proverbial ass next time I see her.
And you're an idiot. What do you people think you're doing? Is that suppose to invalidate me because that's what you think? Stupid. Thanks for helping to make this article go viral sandra @sandramyes230492340, and have a good life.
The version of the line about opinions which I heard had the addendum "and they all stink." :-)
I been using this addendum, sir. LOL Thank you
True, true. No lies detected. LOL
Absolutely. ♥️
You are an essential truth teller about basic human rights, KingRay. Your voice lets people know the reality of lives worth living - whether trans, non-binary, or anyone not considered "mainstream". ALL humans are mainstream. Thank you.
You are welcome, Rain. I just speak my mind and am overwhelmed at how people are listening. Bless you!
Yes, you're full of bullshit. Being trans isn't a dress contest and I'm not at risk in the men's room. You're worried about predatory cisgender males, not transwomen. You know ... dudes like YOU!
Say something else stupid and I'll merely block you if you want to troll my Substack blogs. You have no clue what you're talking about. SMFH
Transvestites is an old term that is now offensive. So, back the fuck off and then get lost.
You are banned from here indefinitely. I unblocked you so you could see the comments made back at you. I told trolls they could get beat up in here and rightly so. I'm not the one to troll ... anywhere on Substack. You people are irrational and stupid.
There are exactly ZERO police reports about trans people harassing cis people in the restroom. However there is a shit ton of reports (including deaths) from cis people harassing trans people in restrooms.
So tell me again how “dangerous” trans people are?
That's damn right, WillH. They just run around making shit up. Not all of them, but cisgender males are predatory in public bathrooms. Not anybody else. Dickheads! LOL
Trans femme here. Wait, just let me take these earrings off first. Okay.
“The number one reason…”. WTF?!?! You better have a source for that statement. Anywho, seems to me you’re confusing kink and identity. Which tells me a bit more about you. Not to mention, that’s a bit dehumanizing, reducing me to a fetish and a perv.
I do not own a single item of men’s clothing. My wardrobe is full of daily wear, office wear, workout wear, night items, underclothes, dresses, skirts, sweaters, all women’s clothes. Not to mention, I probably have like a $1,000 plus in makeup, creams, oils, perfumes, hair care products, etc. I also have jewelry, belts, purses, and my real true love, shoes and boots. But Not.A.Single.Male.Item. It’s been that way for years.
That’s an expensive endeavor just to get hard and harass women in public toilets, don’t you think? Because it’s not my “fetish” it’s my identity. My personhood.
And why the bathroom? Have you been in a public restroom lately? 🤢
Nah, I do fine on Bumble. And I get flirted with and hit on almost everywhere I go. And when I’m feeling spicy, there’s Tinder. So, I’m good.
All I do in a bathroom is refresh my makeup and pee. Just like everyone else.
Okay, I almost fell out when you said, "Wait, just let me take these earrings off first." Aaaaaahahahaha ... LMFAO
I know who influenced you, madam. I'm tickled!
You are a true gentleman, KingRay. I have a feeling I’m not the only one who knows it too. Thank you. 😊
lol. Have a great day!